真不明白

这假期，只想说刚好有时间，可以到外打工，赚点零用钱；况且，能趁这机会和老久不见的朋友，一起工作，也是不错的。总好过在家游手好闲，无所事事似的。

所以，就打工去啦！！！刚开始，好好地，一切都是熟悉的工作，每多大的问题，一切顺利。

但是，过了几天，渐渐觉得有的顾客真挑剔，真麻烦，一点点就闲不好。加上有些工友不肯合作，气得我好像哭,不干了呀！但是，又不能将事情一一投诉，只好全部吞吞近肚里啦!!

真不明白，为何要受这些不益的气！！！

但，想到为了家人，只好忍气吞声咯！！！

加油吧~~~

终于哭了

前阵子，想一想，好像好久没有大哭一场了。
因为没有什么理由，值得要流泪的。

但是，在星期一那天，哭得很辛苦。
只为了想处理小事情，想心平气和地处理。
但是，对方把话说得僵，没有婉转的余地。
而且，还被对方责备自己的不对、被埋怨说我只想着自己。

因为对方的这些话，哭得很；
还是一个人躲着，跟好友通电话。
哭着，哭着，真的很心疼。

有人说：“你哭代表你在乎。对人好，是幸福的。你对他好，是真心的。不用灰心，做回自己。关心人，别人领不领情，不受自己控制。”

现在，过了几天，好很多了，没那么辛苦了。
时间真的能冲淡一切。

最近的我

最近的我，不爱说太多话了。

总觉得说得多，没有意思

如果说得少，却很无趣。

最近喉咙不舒服，还是休息多一点吧！！！

也要专心在考试了，加油~~~

原来；变了

一个朋友，虽然说不上认识很久，但也有四年左右了。

在四年之间，我们不时会联络，也会一起分享近况。

彼此在远离家乡的地方，为学业努力。

有时候，当我快受不了了，对方一定会给我鼓励、安慰。

但是，最近好想很久没有再联络了。

就算在外面见到，也好像很陌生了。

到底，是谁变了呢？

角色

在我的人生里，我是重要的主色，自我决定人生旅程的主角。

在我的家人里，我是不可缺的角色之一，有义务要完成。

在我的亲戚里，对于感情较好的来说，我可能是个配角，有时需要我的协助，有时需要我的陪伴。

像：“陈丽珍，你过来帮我搬家。”、 “陈丽珍，陪我去看场戏吧！”、“陈丽珍，你要吃的时候，记得约我噢！”、“陈丽珍，你有谁谁的电话号码吗？”

相反，对于那些感情不那么好的，我就是不起眼的角色啦！！！说不定，在外头还认不出我呢！！！

在我的朋友圈里，感情好得像姐妹的，一有时间，大家都想见面、谈天、聚会，彼此协助、关怀、支持。在任何时候，都会想为对方好，祝福彼此，是会被记得的角色。

但在相识来，却又不普通的朋友来说，也许是太久没见面了，所以约出来见见面，谈谈天，可以说是去凑场面而以，是个小小配角，躲在一旁不是很重要的一位

我不明呀~~~

朋友对你而言，多重要？这么多？那么多？到底几多？

对我而言，很重要。每一天、每一刻都重要。

当你一个人在外头时，遇到麻烦时，朋友就是你的救星。

当你一个人在烦恼着，该怎么办时，朋友就是 你的听众。

当你一个人要放弃时，朋友就会为你加油打气。

每次，当看见其他人，有一大班的朋友/同学一起约好出外、吃饭、逛街、温习、甚至旅行，好羡慕她们。羡慕她们愿意配合时间、地点，一起吃喝玩乐，分工合作。她们不计较、不自豪、也体验他人的苦衷。

比如,她们不会这么说，

• “我为了和你们一起出外，牺牲我和远方好友约好的机会，你们应该感激我才对嘞！！！哈哈。。。 （还笑得出，笑得开心似的。）”

• “为了陈全你们的计划，要我花这么多钱，哪里可以呀！！！”

• “我计划的好节目，你们一定要出席呀！！！ 我不管你们那么多，我已经把你们给算做会出席了。”

[这种，是朋友的行为吗？]

还有，当知道有些朋友，说到就会做到，从来守信用。，也不会轻易诬赖她人。
比如，

• 约好说要一起讨论课业，会准时到达，也准备了资料。

• 约好何时、何地见面一起合作，一定准时。

• 好好讨论问题，不是觉得自己所说的都对，轻易拒绝她人的意见，从来不试着想她人花多少时间准备。

• 说好她自己会准备资料来开会，但后来自己来不及，却赖她人为何不帮她。
• 她自己准备和表现错得离谱，被老师质疑，觉得没面子，却要全组人为了她的错误而纠正。 但其实，她不是队长，而且其他人都知道对的事，就她表现时搞错了。

[这种，是不是太离谱了？还可称为朋友吗？]

无题

曾经，我会想说为何没有人会多多关心我？也许只是简单的一个问候也好，不必什么物质上的要求。不然就是，多聚聚一下，见见面，喝喝茶，谈天说地这也满足呀！！！

可是，现在的我是会想说，到底我有用心去关心过多少个人，又有多少人了解我的关心呢！！！可能，是我的问题，不善于表达的我，被动的我，习惯独处的我，总是不小心就伤害到其他人了，因为过于的自我保护，所以无意间使心墙越来越高了。

不知道有谁会明白这种感觉，一个人独处的时间，比跟一大伙朋友/亲友一起的时间多，会有什么心事。

不知道有谁会了解这种情况，在个小家庭长大，家境不佳，买东西都斤斤计较，深怕买错了，会浪费钱，被责备乱买东西。

不知道有谁曾想过这念头，眼前看见的家庭苦境，心知自己应该多出点力，为减轻家庭负担，所以总是默默地承受困境。

总合种种的不佳状况，一个人多少是会抱怨的；会抱怨为何想要的东西，总是得不到；会抱怨他人拥有的东西，为何自己不能也拥有；会抱怨明明大家一起聚会，为何自己总被遗忘；会抱怨自己的能力不够，却因为没有机会可以改善。。。 所有的抱怨，导致生活并不快乐，笑容也渐渐消失了。

不能不改的小习惯！！！(It’s time to change your bad habits)

1. 饿了才吃 (Eat only when feel hungry)
许多人都是不按时就餐，还有人常常都不吃早餐，最常用的理由就是“不饿”！这动作可是错误的！其实食物在胃内仅停留4-5小时，感到饥饿时胃早已排空了。这时胃黏膜会被胃液“自我消化”，这会导致引起胃炎或消化性溃疡。

(Nowadays, people do not have meals on time, and some always do not take their breakfast, the most useful reason is “I’m not hungry”! This is a very wrong habit. Actually food will remain in our stomach for only 4 to 5 hours, when we feel hungry it’s when all the food had eliminated from our body. During this period will cause the problem of gastritis and gastric ulcer.)

2. 渴了才喝 (Drink when feel thirsty)
平时不喝水、或是等到口渴时才喝水的人相当多，尤其是青少年和工作忙碌的人。渴是体内缺水的反应，等到渴时候再来补充水分已经太晚了~~~水对人体的代谢比食物还重要，每个成年人每天需要喝下1500毫升左右的水。而在早上或餐前一小时喝一大杯水是很有益的。除了可以洗肠胃，还有助于消化，以及促进食欲。

(Most people will only drink water when they feel thirsty, especially for young one and those busy working in life. We feel thirsty is when our body lack of water, during this period only consume water is already too late. Water is more important than food which functions in metabolizes. Everyone needs to consume water for around 1500ml in a day. During morning or each time before every meal is very healthy habit. This help to clean the intestines, stomach and also increase our appetite. )

3. 累了才歇 (Rest when feel tired)
许多人误认为累了是应该休息的信号，其实是身体相当疲劳的“自我感觉”，这时才休息已为时过晚了。过度疲劳容易积劳成疾，降低人体免疫力，使疾病乘虚而入。不论是脑力还是体力，在连续工作一段时间后，都要得到适当的休息或调整。

(Everyone in life think that when we feel tired it’s the signal to rest, actually this is the time when people are over tired in signal, and it’s too late to have a good rest. Over work or tired will cause people to fall in sick when our immune system had slow down. No matter how long we work, we must always have a good and suitable rest time. )

4. 困了才睡 (Sleep when feel sleepy)
如果出现困倦的情况，代表大脑已经是相当疲劳的表现了，所以不应该等到这时候才去睡觉。按时的睡眠不但可以保护大脑，而且还能提高睡眠质量，减少失眠。人的一生内大约有1/3时间是在睡眠中度过，而睡眠是新陈代谢活动中重要的生理过程。只有培养定时睡觉的习惯，并且保证睡眠时间不少于7小时，这样就能维持睡眠的正常运转。

(We cannot just go to sleep when we feel sleepy, because this show that we are over tired. Sleep on time in life help to protect our brain, and decrease the problem from suffering of insomnia. In our life, 1/3 of the time is use to sleep, which it the process of metabolism. As long as we maintain sleep on time as a habit, make sure not less than 7 hours is a good way to keep healthy.)

5. 急了才排 (Excrete when feel need)
很多人都会在有便意时才去厕所，有人甚至宁愿憋着不上厕所，这样可是和不健康的呢！大小便如果在体内停留过久，容易引起便秘或膀胱问题。此外，粪便和尿液内的有毒物质被人重吸收，如果不解放出来，将会导致“自身中毒”的事情。所以，应养成按时排便的习惯，最佳的时间加是在早上噢！！！

(Mostly people will excrete the excrement when feel of going and some will hold it as long as they can, this a seriously wrong!!! If excrement and urines remain too long in our body, it’s too dangerous for our health; we may get constipation or bladder problem. This good way to avoid is excrete the excrement on time, and the best time is during morning.)

6. 胖了才减 (Diet when it’s fat)
随着生活水平的提高，肥胖的人数可是增加不少，而导致肥胖的原因主要是进食过量和缺乏运动。其实我们可以在发胖前，先对自己设下限制，如控制饮食，防止暴饮暴食的习惯，因为减肥不如先防止肥胖吧！！！

(The problem of obesity is getting increase and serious nowadays, which is due to over eating and lack of exercise in life. Actually we can avoid all the problem of obesity by set a limitation for ourselves, for example control the amount food we need, avoid over eat.)

7. 病了才治 (Cure when it’s sick)
我们应该常常防范疾病，因为等到生病，就代表身体已经造成危害了。平时就应该 加强锻炼，提高自身抵抗疾病的能力。不过有些人很注意养生保健，但却在生活习惯上存在一些误解，到发现的时候已太晚了。

(We should always take good care of ourselves, not treat it when we feel sick. In daily, we must always exercise to increase our stamina to avoid from getting sick. )

别偷懒了，它们是时候换了！！！(The lifespan of……)

1. 枕头 (pillow)

• 使用寿命 ( lifespan)：1-2 年(1-2 years)
• 3 种情况下应该换了：(Under three situations need to change it)
  ~枕套变色了(the color of pillowcase had changed)
  ~ 睡醒后颈项酸痛 (after sleep feel pain on the neck)

~早上起来常觉得气喘 (hardly to breath whenever wake up early the morning)

2. 运动鞋 (sport shoe)

• 使用寿命 ( lifespan)：8-12个月(8-12 months)
• 为了保护你的膝盖，应该每年定期更换它
  (To protect your knee, it’s better to change it every year)

3.牙刷 (Toothbrush)

• 使用寿命 (lifespan)：3个月 (exactly 3 months)
• 每把牙刷的工作总时不宜超过6小时。(Each toothbrush can only work not more than 6 hours)
• 按每次使用牙刷每次两分钟，每天两次计算，它的寿命约为三个月
  (According to each time of using toothbrush, twice in a day around 2minutes, the lifespan of it is nearly 3months)
• 要是忘了用多久，可以根据刷毛规整程度判断
  (If forget about how long you have use the toothbrush, check it according to arrangement of the brush)

4. 抹布 (clothes)

• 使用寿命 (lifespan) ：2周( two weeks)
• 包括厨房、洗手间等等是隐藏最多细菌的东西
  (Included the clothes use in the kitchen, toilet etc that contain a lot of microbes)
• 每次使用过后，应该用热水彻底清洗，然后在阳光下晾干
  (Whenever used it, remember use hot water to wash it, and then expose it under hot sun

5. 冰淇淋 (ice-cream)

• 保质期 (guarantee date)：最长12个月 (maximum 12 weeks)
• 一旦冰淇淋表面形成一层薄冰状糖稀，就意味着冰淇淋不能再吃了
  (When there is a thin, slim layer of icy sugar form on the surface of ice-cream, it’s better not to eat it anymore)

完了？？？

第二学年快结束了，剩下的就是考试了。 但是，同时也得想想、看看该怎么办，因为宿舍要重新安排学生的住宿。也就是说，任何一个人都有可能没得住在宿舍，从下个学期起。怎么办？该不该先找个外面的房子租下，放着东西？要是没得住宿舍，至少有个地方住呀？但是，要有地方，钱再说就不同咯！还有，可以找谁一起呢？Coursemate? Friends? Room-mates? 我也没有交通，只能找靠近的地方了，想到这些都头大了。怎么办嘞？？？

3rd Word...

The third word that always appears in my mind nowadays is “TRAVEL”, from one location to another location, especially whenever the time to go back to home. Imagine actually it’s just 2hours plus from Selangor back to Malacca, but just because need to go out from university to puduraya bus station take 1hour, then reach puduraya take bus back Malacca need 2hours, reach Malacca central need half an hour, total up I take around 3hours plus to back home. But this stills not enough, when there is traffic jam or wait for time to depart, total up have waste a lot of time to travel from Selangor to back hometown. Sigh…

Old Stories

Below was an old article that I had wrote for a forum of university course. Let's have a look...

What is a friend?

A friend is someone we can have fun with, share secrets or problems together, ask advice and many more. We need to treat our friends with receptiveness, humour, love and others to maintain the friendship, just like the way we treat our beloved family members. From my point of views, a friend is like one of my family members in my life. Friend is the one I can trust on beside than my parent. A true friend is willing to spend time to be my good listener and adviser whenever I need them to be by my side. A true friendship is precious and cannot be replacing by anyone or anytime if we lost it. Also, we require a long time and energy to build up a true and worth friendship with someone. I am sure everyone have a lots of friends in their life from everywhere, but can any of you classified which one is the true one, and which one is just a normal friend in your life?

In my life, I have two good friends where I knew them separately for around nine years. One which I met her during Form One Chinese class, whereas the other one I knew her during our co-curriculum activities. Earlier, we does not get closer easily as we met, and we even felt awkward to talk to each others. As time pass, we became like sisters who always get together whenever we can, because we were from different classes during school days. We share secrets and problems together, ask advice when we are facing difficulties, cry together when get bad results, smile happily when we get good news and etc.

For example, during the time we had trial examinations for SPM, one of my good friend was sad because she cannot concentrated to do revision due to stress which caused she did badly in the examinations. Thus, I spent time to listen her problems and tried to advice her. She cannot control her sad feeling after listened what I had said about, and cried out. During that time, I felt helpless when saw she is crying, all I can do just lent her my shoulder and cried together to release her tension.

Next, another good friend of mine is the one who always help me in the studies. I am a person who can easily give up when I am facing problems. During school days, she is the one who always advise and guide me when I cannot solve problems. Also, she willing to share all her notes and extra information she can get with me to help me cope with our studies. She is my good listener who always listens to me without any complain. I feel great and lucky to meet both of them in my life. To conclude, we must maintain our friendship with love and do not ever forget them although now we are staying at the different places to further our studies.

The Second Word

Now let’s talk about the 2nd word that I really do not like nowadays, there is the word of “CHANGE”. At local and public university, we students always fight for entering the group of lectures that we prefer to attend for the new coming semester. But then we may face of the problem that some lecturers may change the time of lectures or laboratory, thus clash with the time of other courses. Or another case is when we have arrange the timetable correctly with the lectures that we would like to attend, but then face the problem of changing lecturer due to their personal reasons.

Furthermore, it’s when the university courses that provided all clash with the timetable, thus we student need either drop this course and take it on the next semester, or we need to go other faculty and join with other courses’ groups. For the 1st choice its fine, we can take it next time. But for the 2nd choice, we need to settle with different departments for taking a course at different faculty, such as the course just provided for what what courses student, so we need to ask department’s help to key in our name in the list from online system. But before that, we need to meet the Prof. that in charge of this course, ask her or his permission for us to enter the group from different faculty, and then need fill in what permission form, send to our faculty, and wait their stuff to settle. A long process is just to open quota for us to enter the group.

The worst problem is when we need prerequisite of a course only can take the coming next semester courses, so we cannot just skip that course and choose to take other courses first. This will disturb the procedure of learning a main course before we graduate.

Next thing I would like to talk about it’s when the time we want to change the bus ticket. For example during this Chinese New Year holidays, I had bought bus tickets that the time when I had attended all lectures and ready to back home for holidays. Unfortunately, the lecturer sudden thought of cancelled the laboratory and let us back home early. T.T… When the time lecturer announced it, it was too late for me to change bus tickets to an early time. Sigh… Even I get to change, also need to pay extra charge fees. And the part I hate the most is delay of the bus, actually I must depart at 1.30pm, but then the people of the bus company asked me to sit 2pm bus, due to the problem of bus. What the… All the work I had plan burned, spoilt all my purposes. Sigh…

How to avoid it?

First Word...

After entered into the 2nd year of the horticulturist life in the university, I had learnt, did a lot of different things, works. I had seen and knew different things that I will never get to know if I didn’t entered into university.

But, I had found out few words that I really do not like at all after entered to university. First of all, the word of “WAIT”. Argh… Cannot imagine that how many times I had spent to wait for college buses, wait for people to go to classes, wait the time to go back home from puduraya station, wait for courses registration through online system, etc. Especially when the time to go back to home, during that time I always alone go and back home, everything that I need to do is to be alert and make sure for myself safety. I think I am getting use to it, since as I always like to work out everything by myself, and seniors taught me before to be more independent whenever I can.

Then, the worst and serious problem is when the time to wait for college buses whenever I need to g out from room to main campus, faculty and other places. Sigh… This is the worst thing that we, students need to face on every day, especially during hot day, when we need to rush out for lectures, need to back room to rest and many more. Can imagine we always rush here and there by taking buses in university just to go to lectures. Somemore, I have a lot of lab or practical time that always do at the ladang places, such ladang TPU, ladang 2,5,10... Where got buses that would like just to send us there? That's the time when I will think that, it's good if I have car at there.